What I learned from a blooming rhododendrum

I took a photo of this lace-cap rhododendron growing next to a parking garage this week, in between errands, and wrote the poem below. What stands out to me is the cluster of blooms closest up, the ones that draw my attention first. In human terms, this is what it feels like when I'm able to show my full self out in the world.

Allow yourself to show your blooms
Whatever they may be.
Display the true you.
I'll be the true me.

Showing Your Blooms

We tend to wait for the version of ourselves that has it all figured out before we let ourselves be seen. But the rhododendron didn't wait for better surroundings before it opened. It bloomed where it was planted, beside a concrete parking garage, fine petals and all. Showing up for and as yourself doesn't mean arriving finished. It means letting what's already there be seen, today, as it is.

Rooted First

None of that blooming happens without the roots doing their quiet work underground. Yet I find with my clients that physical grounding itself can be a challenge. I recommend practices that help you ground, through stillness, through breath, through attention to your body. This is often where showing up for yourself actually begins.

Bringing Your True Self Forward

Your true self isn't your most polished self. It's the version of you that's rooted enough to be truly present, and honest enough to let itself be seen. That's not something you push toward. It's something you make room for, a little at a time.

If you'd like some support along the way, I'm here for you.